Benny Blanco reveals secrets to his successful marriage to Selena Gomez

Benny Blanco has opened up about his married life with Selena Gomez.

The 38-year-old music producer recently appeared on the Today show, where he revealed that the secret to his successful relationship with the singer is his kidness.

“I didn’t use, like, black magic or anything,” Benny said. “I just was nice.”

“It’s like understanding your partner and being able to talk about things, and have an open dialogue,” he continued. “Yeah, we’re in a really good spot, and I’m very fortunate."

"And I think, again, not being a dick and being nice to people put her in my orbit," added the The Grammy-winning producer.

For those unversed, Benny and Selena tied the knot on September 27, 2025, in Santa Barbara, California.

The musician recently shared how he feels when he is with the Calm Down hitmaker.

“Selena is the only person I can be completely vulnerable with. Most of the time, I feel like I have to be this superhuman person. Like I have to have everything together," said Benny 

“But when I’m with her, I can just melt into her arms and cry an ocean of tears, and she’ll scoop me back up and make me feel like I can do anything," he continued. "Her heart, her smile, her eyes. They’re all perfect."

"She’s, my rock. She’s my best friend. She’s my everything," added Benny.