Know real couple behind true story of ‘The Notebook’ movie

The Notebook has captured hearts for 21 years, but what makes it even more special is that its unforgettable love story was inspired by a real-life couple. Nicholas Sparks, who wrote the bestselling novel behind the 2004 film starring Ryan Gosling and Rachel McAdams, found his inspiration in his ex-wife Cathy’s grandparents.

Sparks shared that Cathy’s grandparents had a romance that stood the test of time, even after being separated by her grandmother’s strict parents. 

“Cathy’s grandparents, they were this great couple and in many ways, their story [is The Notebook],” Sparks told The Wall Street Journal in 2016. Despite their separation, Cathy’s grandfather didn’t give up. Like Noah in the story, he kept writing letters, and eventually, his one true love came back.

“What I most remember ... is the way they were treating each other,” Sparks wrote on his website. 

“The way his eyes shined when he looked at her, the way he held her hand, the way he got her tea and took care of her.” 

Even after more than 60 years together, their devotion remained as strong as ever.

Their story became the heart of Sparks’ novel, showing a love that lasted through time and challenges. Cathy’s grandfather, like Noah, tried to help his wife remember their shared history as she battled dementia. 

“He didn’t have a notebook, but it was an album that he would walk her through and tell her about their lives together,” Sparks explained.

Sparks said that hearing their story planted the seeds for The Notebook. 

“It was then they told us the story of how they met and fell in love, parts of which eventually made their way into The Notebook,” he recalled.

Their real-life romance continues to remind readers and viewers alike of the power of lasting love—proving that sometimes, the most beautiful stories come straight from the heart.