Prince Harry and Meghan Markle have found themselves in the midst of a large amount of turmoil, and is all got to do with their kids because it might just be the straw that breaks the camel’s back—the camel being their marriage.
A well placed insider dropped this revelation, as well as simultaneous warning to RadarOnline.
According to their findings, this is an issue where they are effectively pulling in different directions, and “no matter how many times they think they have parked it, it resurfaces again.”
What has many ringing alarm bells though is that, “that is why it has become their most brutal fight yet – it strikes at their identities as parents and what they believe their children's lives should look like.”
As part of the warning the insider also added, “if neither of them is willing to bend, people around them fear it could be the thing that finally breaks the marriage.”
The insider also did not end there, and instead pointed out how the very thing that makes them their best for their kids might just be what spells the end of their union because while “the love they have for Archie and Lilibet is unquestionable, but that same love makes every conversation heavier, more emotional, and far harder to resolve.” On one side “Harry's protectiveness is rooted very deeply in what he experienced growing up, and those scars are still raw for him.” Plus “he carries a lot of unresolved anger about how exposed and packaged his childhood felt, and that has made him acutely sensitive to even the slightest hint of his own children being treated in a similar way,” the same insider added.
So “from his perspective, there is no middle ground on this – shielding Archie and Lilibet from that world is not optional, it is a core responsibility he believes he owes them as their father.”
Furthermore, if the decision rested solely on his shoulders there would be no sneak peeks of the Sussex kids and they would be kept completely out of view, in complete and utter privacy, well until they themselves are grown up enough to decide what they want.
However, where the concept of total anonymity stands, Harry is said to have understood clearly that that is “unrealistic” given who they are, but “his default reaction is always to tighten the boundaries as much as possible.”
“He is deeply opposed to the idea that Archie and Lilibet should inherit any sense of duty, expectation, or pressure simply because of their birth, and he is determined to spare them that unseen burden,” they also added.
But his wife Meghan is completely different because she is adamant that there is no agenda behind her posts at the moment, and only aims for some kind of flexibility in how, when and where the kids appear on her socials, “without it being framed as some calculated reveal.”
What’s also pertinent to mention is that the decision for Prince Archie and Princess Lilibet’s faces to be hidden is a decision enforced by the prince himself because Meghan's perspective, keeping the children ‘almost entirely’ out of sight creates its own problems.
She is even said to have admitted to the Duke that she finds her children looking invisible on social media only serves to invites more curiosity, gossip, and scrutiny from the outside world.
This is why she would prefer a “carefully managed level of visibility,” but Harry has not shifted from his position at all, its being siad and that ‘standoff’ has sparked “some very tense, emotionally charged discussions behind closed doors.”